The obvious reason to use a card game about sex is to get to know your lover or partner. It’s a fun way to make it easier to talk about desires and boundaries. But did you ever think about playing with your friends? Or to spark a conversation with someone on a dating app to get to know them? What about as a tool for sex coaches with their clients?
No matter who you play with, one thing’s for sure: it’s never just about sex. 3 things that can happen when you start the game.
A card game makes it easy to talk about things you maybe feel a bit uncomfortable about. The card is asking the question or giving the assignment, not you! This creates a space for all participants to share their thoughts, desires and boundaries more openly. It fosters a deep understanding and strengthens bonds between partners, friends, dates or coach and client.
A card game is an easy way to practice your boundaries. It’s on you to answer a question, do an assignment or decline if you don’t feel comfortable. What is your limit?
A card game provides a structured and judgmental free way to have an approachable and enjoyable conversation about sex. Each player introduces unique and fresh ideas and perspectives. This helps people to discover aspects of their sexuality they may never have thought of before. Hearing personal stories from the other players can also work destigmatizing.
Ready to play? Buy the card game about sex and open up the conversation!
Thank you Diede, Tijn, Jonnah and Maxi for playing the Pleasure Cards and being so open and honest! - This video was recorded in March 2024.