We explored the role of realism in erotic literature: why does so much erotica lean towards idealised bodies, extraordinary scenarios and „perfect" sex, and what happens when we make the awkwardness, insecurities, communication, humour and imperfect sex part of the erotic story instead. Why is realistic erotica (like my guest’s) still relatively niche and could recognising ourselves in what we read actually expand our fantasies rather than limit them? Is our fantasy being ruined by our fantasies? Together with Lisa Opel (Please Pinch me Hard) we dived into this topic.
Some book recommendations from Lisa that are definitely worth checking out:
Brianna Wiest - 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
Hollie McNish - Slug
Jordan, Hillary & Lu-Lien Tan, Cheryl - Anonymous Sex
Matt Haig - The Humans
Each month, The Pleasure Society takes to the Echobox airwaves for an intimate and insightful radio hour hosted by Shari Klein. Blending sultry sounds, evocative poetry, and open-hearted conversations, each episode explores a different facet of sexuality—from the playful to the profound. Expect a warm, inclusive space where pleasure meets curiosity, featuring special guests, thoughtful commentary, and a soundtrack to match.
